A Grayish Day

I am very happy these days and the reason is, finally I am going on vacation and will be visiting my mom's and MIL' place.. YEEEYY. This has the longest duration( a complete year) since I did not visit my home but finally i am going home and i have started planning too **SMILES**.  I will be meeting my cousins and recall all our old memoirs, have my favorite  panipuri and chats (which i don't like in Hyderabadi taste), spend some quality time with mom dad (very important), sleep in my room(i still miss my room) and lot more things....

For those who are new on blog or don't know, I have been living in Hyderabad with Mr Husband for approximately 3 years but even then i do not feel it like i am at home and it still feels like its just a flat where we are living for the job and the earnings. It might be because we don't have many friends or family members here or there were few times when we could not make it to be with family in their happy or sad moments or coz of different culture/ people around us or we are too busy in work and other stuff. Whatever it is but i still don't feel it home and always wish we could relocate to Delhi. Actually when we are surrounded by our close ones or we can celebrate our happiness with them or we can meet them whenever we feel also, it feels like you are  Home.

Lets move to the outfit. This is what i wore today for the grocery shopping over the weekend. 

I absolutely love the black-grey combination. I feel its one of the combination which is classy and can be tried fr any occasion when you are confused about the colors.

I had tried a few neck-piece with this outfit but  i was not satisfied with the complete Look that was coming with the neck-piece. They  were somehow not matching with the top's style and so i removed it.

Please ignore my eyes as it happens most of the times in my pics. It looks like i am drunk and losing all my senses.. LOL. 

On Me: Top: Code,

Jeggings : Forever 21
Shoes: Catwalk

Banges, earings: Thrifted

PS:All the pictures are taken in my society's balcony. So if you found some funny/ weird stuff a the backside, please avoid it. 

Loads of Love 

Swati

Black and White !!

PS: If you are unmarried, you might not be interested in the post. 
So (if you want) you can directly move to the outfit.

Today i read the give status post on FB.

If u are single, they ask about BoyFriend/fiancé. 

When u have a fiancé, they ask for wedding. 

When u get married,they ask for children. 

Once u have one,they ask for another. 

if u get divorced,they ask why. 

If you try to start ur life again, they ask why so quickly. 

People never like what u do.

 If u are proud of who u are & don't care about what people think, share it, because it's your life and you should live it the way you want to.People Get A Life !!!

Well i did not repost it as i hate spamming on FB and i dont need to prove anything about anything but while reading this message, i realize that i am also going though one of its phase (the third one). Its going to be 3 years(in few months) of my wedding and a few questions that has been asked me again and again by the family/ friends/ relatives/ neighbors are: When you are going to have a kid? Its been years(feel like i got married few centuries ago), why you guys are not planning for the kids? Well its our personal life and our decision when we will have a child. Why the hell do you care about it. If i'll get a child, are you going to feed him/her? Who is going to take care of the child? Its none of your business what and why are planning about our life. We are happy with our current life and do not want to have more responsibilities, why do you poke your nose in my personal matters. We too want to have the child, but why do you care about WHEN? We will have it whenever we want to have one.


Its easy to explain the family, what we think and what we are planning about but when it comes to relatives or neighbors, i really don't understand what should i reply them and why should i explain them. There is always a age difference, so we cannot be so rude also and sometimes it becomes very complex to explain. In fact i feel they have nothing to with our life and these questions are asked just to know what is happening in our life.

Did you also face the same situation? If yes, what you did?

On the other node, this is what i wore on Sunday for shopping with cousin.

Black and white is my all time favorite combo and i wear it whenever i am confused while dressing up. As i told here before, one need to very conscious when dressing up in Hyderabad, I wore the tights with this floral dress.

A closer look .. :)

I so love these booties. They are a perfect combo of heels with comfort. I got them from ASOS some time back but never get a change to wear them coz of the weather conditions (its too Hot here). I really wish we would have some winters in Hyderebad also so that we could also enjoy the Fall items like boots and all.

ON ME::  Floral Dress: Pantaloons

Booties, Tights: ASOS

Bangles, Loops : local boutique

With Love

Swati

Mixed Prints and a Figther

Last Night I read a post at Kiran's blog about Navjot Kashyap. I will not talk anything about Navjot here as even i dont know much about him and visiting his blog fr the first time. But after going through the post i can say that He is a fighter and has a strong will to live the life. Many of us give up when something wrong happen but he is not only fighting but also working even at this stage.

He made me realize that we are so blessed with the most important thing of any life that is Health but do we ever thank God for proving us a good health or for a loving family or a good job? I am not getting spiritual here but most of the times we are just complaining about the things that we don't have in life or what others have and ruin our life in the charm of those things forgetting about everything that we have in our Life.  If we ever try to look into our lives what all we have that others dont have, we will realize that how blessed and lucky we are to have the current life. Life is not to waste for the things that we don't have but its all about being happy and enjoying the things that we have. I am not saying don't be ambitious but  don't just let your ambitions affect your life's happiness. Everything in life have their own place and we should not let one part of our life dominate over the others.

Lets move Forward to the outfit:

 This is what i wore today for the office. Nothing Fancy but a basic shirt with a beautiful floral pants which is my recent purchase. The little flowers are not visible clearly in the pic but they are so cute. I have already posted here that i am not an expert while it come to mixing the prints but i try it whenever i feel to and i am loving the outputs.

 These pictures are taken after the work and i had even removed the (only few) accessories that i was wearing. I am very obsessed with he side tails these days and doing it almost everyday.

On Me: Shirt : F&U

Pants: Forever21

Shoes: Gift from Mom

Belt: With the Jeans

Swati